Everyone Needs an Estate Plan

Everyone needs an estate plan. If you’re reading this, you’re probably aware that you–and if you’re married, your spouse–need an estate plan. But there are other people in your orbit who need an estate plan: your young adult children. Your children over the age of 18 need an estate plan, too. Yes, even the ones who still live at home, and the ones who you claim as a dependent. Or are away at college. Especially the ones who are away at college.

Anyone over the age of 18 is a legal adult. The law does not care whether that person is gainfully employed or playing video games until 3am. Reaching 18 years of age is an arbitrary measurement, and when it’s achieved, congratulations! You’re an adult! What comes with adulthood is the ability to make your own legally binding decisions… and to prohibit others from making decisions for you. Even if those “other people” are paying your bills, claiming you as a dependent, or housing you.

Consider your typical college-aged child. They are likely over the age of 18, or very close to it. They likely do not have much life experience, and base decisions on the nearterm. They may be impressionable, or easily persuaded. Or maybe they’re just a knucklehead. If, as a result of a misguided decision, they were to become incapacitated (think: hospitalized, detained by law enforcement, involved in a crisis, etc.), no one can make decisions for them without a properly executed estate plan–e.g., will, durable power of attorney, healthcare directive. Not even their parents! You see, they’re adults. Any institutions your adult child interacts with will only want to speak to your child. University administration, banks, authorities, doctors, school officials, etc., won’t listen to anyone but your adult child. They are legally prohibited from listening to third parties, even the parents of an adult.

A young adult crisis can appear anywhere. It could be a party gone wrong. It could be from spending time with that one friend of theirs that they just can’t seem to get enough of. Maybe it was a date or hangout gone wrong. If you, as a parent, want the ability to make decisions on behalf of your adult child, they must execute estate planning documents giving you that authority. Otherwise, you are at the mercy of the local court process. And if your child is away at college, that court process might be very foreign to you, operating under laws you aren’t familiar with.

Maybe your child is in a crisis because someone injured them. With a properly executed estate plan, your child could authorize you to file a lawsuit against the perpetrator on their behalf, speak to school administrators on their behalf, speak to the government on their behalf.

It doesn’t matter that your adult child doesn't “own much”. Or that they aren’t employed, or that they live at home, or live in a dorm and come home often. None of those things matter if your child is over the age of 18, and you want the ability to make decisions on their behalf in a crisis. Everyone needs an estate plan.

How to Know Your Estate Plan is Current

Not having an estate plan comes at a significant risk for every single person, regardless of wealth, age, or life circumstance. Everybody’s estate plan may look different. It’s important to be sure your estate plan is tailored to your circumstances. Having an estate plan that is not current–meaning, it does not reflect your current wishes or address your current life circumstance–is as detrimental as not having a plan at all. In some cases, having an estate plan that is not suited to your life can be worse than not having one at all. Just like our lives evolve with time, our estate plan must adjust from time to time to address our life circumstances.

Are your young children not so young anymore? Are you transitioning into another phase of your life, like retirement or an “empty nest”? Did your life take an unexpected twist? Or maybe you weren’t aware of some changes in the law of which you would like to take advantage. Here are four things to look for in an existing estate plan to help spot potential areas for revision.

Unnecessary AB Trust

An “AB Trust” is a living trust created by a married couple that “splits” into two or more separate trusts upon the death of one spouse. It was commonly used prior to 2013 for estate tax purposes. It is still commonly used for non-tax purposes, such as re-marriage protection or with blended families. Since estate tax exemption amounts have increased dramatically since 2013, and since we allow spouses to use both of their exemption amounts automatically (“portability”), the AB Trust is no longer commonly used for estate tax purposes. If you created your trust prior to 2013 and your combined estate is worth less than $10 million, then you may want to consider restating your trust to remove the AB Trust provisions.

Outdated distribution path or specific gifts–adult children

Gifts for small children may look a lot different than provisions for adult children. Perhaps parents of young children placed basic care and needs like shelter and education above all else, and made provisions in their trust to reflect that priority. When that young child is a married adult with their own children, those protective provisions may look silly. Similarly, if a young child has grown into an adult who makes questionable decisions–with money, with partners, with their use of their free time–perhaps it’s time to put in more protective provisions for that child. There are many options for providing for your loved ones.

Additionally, perhaps your adult children have become more distinctive as they got older. For example, maybe one of your children moved abroad and the other is staying nearby, perhaps taking some of their time and resources to care for you. Maybe it’s a good idea to discuss whether to leave your home to one child and not equally to both, as to provide for the child who is caring for you, and to not create property tax issues.

Outdated list of decisionmakers

This is by far the most common reason people revise their estate plan. An estate plan is, after all, more about people than things. Being sure the decisionmakers are a list of good, reliable choices is paramount to a comprehensive estate plan. Click here for a prior post discussing how to choose decisionmakers.

Upcoming transition–divorce, aging partner, health issues

Life is nothing but a series of transitions. Your estate plan should be revisited regularly to be sure it addresses the current transition and contemplates any upcoming changes, as well. Are you going through a divorce? Are you about to retire? Perhaps you or your spouse are facing health issues. These are all reasons to revisit your estate plan and plan for the worst while hoping for the best. After all, you didn’t create an estate plan simply to address one set of circumstances.

Use this opportunity to be proactive in shaping your estate plan. If you wait too long, your agency will vanish, and in its place may only be left regret. Speak to an estate planning attorney to explore your options.