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Everyone Needs an Estate Plan (Example 4)

Estate planning is much more than just death planning and giving away your stuff after you die. It’s also about planning for circumstances that you may not have anticipated. 

This post is the third installment in our "Everyone Needs and Estate Plan" series. If you missed Examples 2 & 3, click here to read it.

Example 4: You’re young (but over 18), single, and healthy. You decide that since you don’t have kids, and you haven’t made your first million--yet--that you don’t need an estate plan. On your way to work, someone is texting while driving, doesn't see you, and rams right into you. You're severely injured, and the paramedics are called to the scene. You’re taken to the hospital, and you lay there incapacitated. You're still alive, but you lack the ability to make your own decisions or to handle your own affairs. We’re essentially in Example 1, except that you don’t have a spouse here. Your parents and siblings fly in from out of town, and they want to be involved with your care, they want to alert your boss as to what happened, and they also want to sue the negligent driver who caused your injuries. Unfortunately, all they are given is the bad news that they have to go to court to obtain the appropriate legal authority to handle any of your affairs on your behalf.

You're an adult. No one can make decisions for you... except you. Even though your relatives are here--your parents, at that--and they likely have your best interests in mind, no one has the legal authority to handle your affairs for you absent your permission (power of attorney) or court order (conservatorship).

Hyperbole aside, estate planning is about crisis planning before there is a crisis. Once a crisis occurs--be it a bad reaction to medication, or plain bad luck--it’s often too late to have the proper tools in place to face that crisis head-on. In all likelihood you’ll need to spend a great deal of time and money acquiring the right tools to deal with the crisis. It means more stress on top of an already stressful situation for your loved ones.

As you can see, estate planning has little to do with your net worth or your age. It is important for everyone at any age. If you’re over 18 years of age, you absolutely need an estate plan. If you have a family, especially minor children, that need for an estate plan merely increases. To determine what kind of estate plan you and your family needs, please contact us for a free initial consultation.

Everyone Needs an Estate Plan (Examples 2 & 3)

Estate planning is much more than just death planning and giving away your stuff after you die. It’s also about planning for circumstances that you may not have anticipated. 

This post is the second installment in our "Everyone Needs and Estate Plan" series. If you missed Example 1, click here to read it.

Example 2: You are married, and you have a couple of children. Now imagine that you and your spouse divorce. Neither of you have done any estate planning. If you or your now ex-spouse remarry and die before his or her new spouse, you could have unintentionally just cut your kids out of his or her inheritance. Without proper planning, by default, your estate goes to your surviving spouse, the person you were married to when you died. In this example, the surviving spouse happened to be someone who is not the parent of your children. At least some of the assets you may have intended on going to your children are now in the hands of someone unrelated to your children.

Example 3: Same facts as Example 2, except neither of you remarry, and instead you both tragically die. Your children are still minors (under the age of 18) and lack the legal authority to make legally-binding decisions on their own (enrolling them in school, going on field trips, renting an apartment, making financial transactions, etc.). Because you did zero estate planning, we now have two orphans who need legal guardians. Well, you never got around to telling the world who that should be in a legal document. So whoever thinks they should be your children’s parents goes off to court, and hopefully the court makes a good decision. That's probably not the way you want it to play out.

Check back next week for another example of why everyone needs an estate plan. If you would like a free one-hour consultation to discuss your estate planning goals, do not hesitate to contact us.

Everyone Needs an Estate Plan (Example 1)

Estate planning is much more than just death planning and giving away your stuff after you die. It’s really about choosing decision makers for those moments when you cannot make your own decisions. Sure, you cannot make your own decisions after you have died. But there are several other times when you can end up incapacitated (meaning, you cannot legally make your own decisions) and yet still be very much alive. Without proper planning, you may leave your loved ones stuck in a tough place if you ever become incapacitated.

Over the next few weeks, we're going to walk through a few examples.

Example 1: Imagine that you and your spouse have decided to take your young kids skiing. As you’re taking photos of the little ones having a blast, you don’t realize that you’re headed right for a tree. Before you know it, you collide with the tree, you’re out cold, and you’re rushed to the hospital.

The good news is that you’re still alive. The bad news is that you’re now incapacitated. You’re unable to make your own medical and financial decisions. This could last for hours (medication), days (coma), or a lifetime (permanent brain damage). It’s now up to someone else to make those decisions for you.

Your spouse decides that he or she is going to step in and make decisions for you, including handling your finances, dealing with the insurance company, dealing with your boss, and maybe suing the ski resort. Unfortunately, you didn’t do any estate planning, so your spouse now has to go to court and have a judge issue an order that allows your spouse to make those decisions for you. This is the key: Your spouse can’t do any of the above without the appropriate authority.

You see, just because you’re married doesn’t give your spouse the legal authority to make decisions on your behalf. You have to give your spouse (or someone else) that power before you become incapacitated. This is commonly done in a power of attorney.

The same principle applies if you have children over the age of 18. Unless your child has given you the legal authority to make decisions on his or her behalf (for example, via a power of attorney), you need a court order to have that legal authority. And getting a court order when your child or loved one is incapacitated can be stressful and overwhelming, not to mention expensive. This is why it’s important to plan ahead.

Check back next week for another example of why everyone needs an estate plan. If you would like a free one-hour consultation to discuss your estate planning goals, do not hesitate to contact us.


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