Are You Married?

There is a common misconception that California honors “common law marriage” after seven years of living together.* 

*(The misconception sometimes has a different number of years associated with it.) 

In California, there is NO common law marriage. There is NO seven year rule (or any other year rule) to establish a marriage. The only way to be married in California is to marry with a state license and certificate from the county clerk. 

And if you’re not married, then under the law, you and your significant other have no more rights than roommates. 

There’s no legal in-between. 

If you live with your significant other for 50 years, you’re still not married. If you have children together, you’re still not married. If you share ownership of a home, you’re still not married. The only way to be considered married is to actually get married. 

So why is this significant? Well, in sum: married couples enjoy benefits that unmarried couples do not. Married couples are considered family (e.g. for visitation in a hospital, healthcare benefits, or even inheritance); they can own community property (which has its own benefits); and they have different tax treatments. 

A registered domestic partnership is also not marriage. Although California recognizes domestic partnerships, the federal government does not. The federal government only recognizes marriages. 

So that marriage certificate is not just a piece of paper. It has major consequences and impacts on your rights, benefits, and obligations. If you would like to discuss how your situation would be affected by getting married (or not), please contact us for a free consultation.