How Do You Select The Decision Makers in Your Estate Plan?

Determining what happens to your stuff after you die is only one aspect of an estate plan. And it’s not even the most critical part. The most critical component of any estate plan is the people involved. Who will act as your financial agent in a time of crisis? Who will make medical decisions for you? If you have minor children, who would you select to be their legal guardian? And then there’s your stuff. Where do your assets and possessions go after you die? And if you’re leaving any of it to young, immature, or unprepared individuals, who will you select to manage that inheritance for them?

Financial agents. “Financial agent” is a short hand to mean the successor trustee of your living trust, the executor of your will, and the attorney-in-fact under your power of attorney. The reason we have one umbrella term for these roles is because they all serve in making financial decisions for you when you are unable, and the three roles overlap so much that we recommend using a consistent list for all three.

So how do you choose your financial agents? It comes down to judgment. This is a decision making role. Choose someone who shares similar priorities, values, and decision making principles with you. Don’t worry about knowledge or expertise. With good judgment, one can always seek out the appropriate expert advice.

Guardians. Guardians are nominated to raise minor children–children under the age of 18 years. A good guardian is someone who shares your values. Are you religious? Do you like early bedtimes for your children? Is diet and nutrition important for your child? A good candidate for a guardian nomination would hold dear the same values that you do. Additionally, if your child is school-aged, it will be critical that the nominated guardian live local enough as to not uproot your now-orphaned child. Orphaned children have already gone through the trauma of losing their parents. They do not need the additional unease of living in unfamiliar surroundings, away from their friends and community.

Healthcare agents. The same goes for healthcare agents as was described previously about financial agents. You do not need to befriend a bunch of medical professionals to use as healthcare agents. You want someone who shares your judgment and values. They can speak to the medical professionals to get expert opinions and advice.

You can select the same person or persons for each or all of the roles above. But that is not required. It really comes down to your life situation and peace of mind. Would you want the person in charge of your child’s inheritance to also be the one who puts them to bed each night? Do you know someone who can make medical decisions for you and also handle your financial affairs? An experienced estate planning professional can help walk you through your life situation, priorities, and selections. And they can add their own experiences as additional guidance.